I ask God to take away my bad habit .

God said , no

It is not for me to take away , but for you to give it up .

I asked God to make my spirit grow.

God said, no.

 You must grow on your own!

  But I will prune you to make you fruitful .

I ask God to grant me patience .

God seaid , no

Patirnce is a byproduct of tribulation

It isn’t granted , it is learned .

I asked God to give me happiness .

God said , no .

I give you blessings ;

Happiness is up to you .

I askesd God to spare me pain.

God said , no .

Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to me . 

I asked God to help me love others , as much as He loves me .

God said : Ahah , finally you have the idea .